Finally, you have landed that relationship with your ideal man and because of past experiences, you desire for this one to be perfect. Ok, not perfect, because as much as we would like to think of it nothing is really perfect and the little imperfections in your partner makes the relationship unique and interesting. For you to achieve this, you have to have some tips on your sleeve so as to take that relationship on a deferent level. No worries, here are some tips to help you out.
1.Maintain how you treat each other
When you first start dating someone, you are trying really hard to impress them and win them over. If you treat them the same way throughout the whole relationship, it won’t fade out or get boring
2. Don’t take them for granted.
When someone becomes a part of your routine it’s easy to forget what it was like before they came into the picture. You get comfortable. You get used to things. When you get too used to having someone you stop appreciating what you have.
3.Don’t allow jealously and Insecurity To Overcome You
Yes, people are going to hit on them, exes might return and blow up their phone. You aren’t the only one who finds them attractive. But when jealousy arises what you are really telling your partner is I’m not confident enough in myself to keep you.
4. Don’t let feelings and emotions build up.
When you let negative feelings build up what happens is it’ll all come out at once at the completely wrong time. Take heavy and negative emotions as they come and deal with them right then and there.
5.Let the other person breath
I know ladies are going to disagree here but, give your partner time to breath. Everyone becomes possessive about their loved ones but don’t let this possessiveness become the main thing in your relationship. Sometimes it’s just good to give someone space.
6.Understand the good and bad times
The do’s and don’ts of love invite us not only to romantize our relationships, but also keep a dose of realism in them. No matter how beautiful a relationship is, you will always have to go through difficult times. That does not mean there is something wrong. Quite the opposite, it is healthy to have challenges in a relationship.
When your partner feels loved, sexuality comes spontaneously. your Love is the best aphrodisiac. However, in sexuality, as in other many other aspects, there are ups and downs. There are times of great spontaneity interspersed with dryer times. The do’s and don’ts of love show us that intimacy should be cultivated. This doesn’t mean inventing strange or exotic situations so that the flame doesn’t go out. It means kissing, laughing, caressing hugging. All these manifestations ignite passion.
8. Do have realistic expectations of them.
Think about the things you ask them? Is it realistic or some fantasy you have about what you want the relationship to be? Reverse the roles and think if they were demanding as much from me could I handle it or could I do that? More than that, are you already doing that? Just be realistic.