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More often than not we are simply left to bumble through the situation blind, looking for signs a guy likes you — that seem to be nowhere to be found!

Luckily, all hope is not lost. If you're wondering how to tell if he likes you, we've got some undeniable signs that he likes you from actual honest to goodness men.


1. They use innuendo

"Make eye contact, pay attention, listen, and when you feel that the moment is right, put a little bit of innuendo into the conversation, something that can be taken in a sexual manner but only if she wants it to be.

If she responds well, dial it back for a bit and then put in a little bit more a couple minutes later. Escalate from there."

2. They say off-the-wall stuff

"It's all intuitive, and it's gotten through experience.

Here's the secret: if she's into you, you have a lot of leeway as long as you don't mention your spaghetti coprophagia fetish. If she immediately goes 'pffft' and rejects you outright because of a slightly fumbled attempt at flirting, she wasn't into you anyway.

That's why really attractive, outgoing, confident guys can say off-the-wall stuff and still get laid while you're frantically trying to cultivate the best possible conversation and still striking out."

3. They start to lean

"Read body language, watch for social cues, and interact well with the person. Lean into intimate topics when you feel the time is right. Then start at the top again."


4. They try to be funny

"Flirting for me is an increase. You're having a conversation and you start increasing your emphasis on things that you feel will elicit positive responses.

You increase your humor while trying to gauge their tastes and interests. You increase your focus on them and how you fit in with their sense of self. (Shared perspectives, similar or non-conflicting interests, differences that promote discussion not conflict.) You increase physical interaction at exactly the right point."

5. They reveal intimate truths

"Flirting is a game with a playful conversation with people with a dash of intimacy to separate it from everything else.

If you have a poor or low social ability, it's the same as having poor hand-eye coordination with high-skill FPS games. You won't get their number and you won't get that headshot either."



6. He makes it clear he's having fun

"Don't try to flirt. Just have fun and enjoy the time spent with the girl. Anytime someone actively tries to flirt it just comes off so forced and awkward."


7. He acts like he isn't flirty

"I don't actively flirt anymore. It isn't positively accepted ever so, why waste the energy and time?"

8. He's courteous

"I don't really know if I consciously flirt, I just treat women I like really nice and act really interested in them."

RELATED: 10 Weird Ways Guys Flirt With You (That You're Probably Not Picking Up On)

9. He changes his voice

"If we're talking I'll sit there supporting my cheek with a hand and stare at you smiling while we talk. My tone of voice changes a lot."

10. He's direct about his feelings

"I never flirted. If I was interested in a woman, I told her.

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More often than not we are simply left to bumble through the situation blind, looking for signs a guy likes you — that seem to be nowhere to be found!

Luckily, all hope is not lost. If you're wondering how to tell if he likes you, we've got some undeniable signs that he likes you from actual honest to goodness men.


1. They use innuendo

"Make eye contact, pay attention, listen, and when you feel that the moment is right, put a little bit of innuendo into the conversation, something that can be taken in a sexual manner but only if she wants it to be.

If she responds well, dial it back for a bit and then put in a little bit more a couple minutes later. Escalate from there."

2. They say off-the-wall stuff

"It's all intuitive, and it's gotten through experience.

Here's the secret: if she's into you, you have a lot of leeway as long as you don't mention your spaghetti coprophagia fetish. If she immediately goes 'pffft' and rejects you outright because of a slightly fumbled attempt at flirting, she wasn't into you anyway.

That's why really attractive, outgoing, confident guys can say off-the-wall stuff and still get laid while you're frantically trying to cultivate the best possible conversation and still striking out."

3. They start to lean

"Read body language, watch for social cues, and interact well with the person. Lean into intimate topics when you feel the time is right. Then start at the top again."


4. They try to be funny

"Flirting for me is an increase. You're having a conversation and you start increasing your emphasis on things that you feel will elicit positive responses.

You increase your humor while trying to gauge their tastes and interests. You increase your focus on them and how you fit in with their sense of self. (Shared perspectives, similar or non-conflicting interests, differences that promote discussion not conflict.) You increase physical interaction at exactly the right point."

5. They reveal intimate truths

"Flirting is a game with a playful conversation with people with a dash of intimacy to separate it from everything else.

If you have a poor or low social ability, it's the same as having poor hand-eye coordination with high-skill FPS games. You won't get their number and you won't get that headshot either."



6. He makes it clear he's having fun

"Don't try to flirt. Just have fun and enjoy the time spent with the girl. Anytime someone actively tries to flirt it just comes off so forced and awkward."


7. He acts like he isn't flirty

"I don't actively flirt anymore. It isn't positively accepted ever so, why waste the energy and time?"

8. He's courteous

"I don't really know if I consciously flirt, I just treat women I like really nice and act really interested in them."

RELATED: 10 Weird Ways Guys Flirt With You (That You're Probably Not Picking Up On)

9. He changes his voice

"If we're talking I'll sit there supporting my cheek with a hand and stare at you smiling while we talk. My tone of voice changes a lot."

10. He's direct about his feelings

"I never flirted. If I was interested in a woman, I told her.
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