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The Notable Boko Haram leader Abukakar Shekau,  gave a notes to attack Buhari if he returns to Borno State.

According to a video release out by ITRENDNAIJA,  the leader of the sect said,  Your president was pretending to be a good man.

The leader who was saying,  he shouldn't try such again. While speaking in Hausa language.

Further more he said,  I gave the federal government of Nigeria or what so ever condition for releasing the chibok girls,  if they release their  people under Federal Government   custody.

Buhari don't come to our territory again, Shekau Boko Haram leader.

Pregnancy has a way of drastically changing a woman physically and emotionally, and your wife requires lots of support and attention from you during this period. Being a pregnant wife is tough! But with the help of the husband, this process may become bearable. For most men with wives in their second pregnancy, knowing what to do is easy, but for men with wives who are having their first baby, learning how to be a supportive husband during pregnancy is crucial!

From a bulging tummy as the small bundle of joy grows inside her, to stretch marks, mood swings, backaches and even bigger appetite, your wife already has a plateful of issues to deal with. This is the best time to be her hero. Below are things you could do for her to make the pregnancy a memorable experience:

1. Giver her massages (lots of them!)

The weight of the growing baby exerts pressure on your wife's back and she will suffer constant back pains. Do not let her go through this pain unattended. Get the massage oil and put those strong hands of yours to work, but in a gentle way.

Whether you give her a full body massage, a back massage or a foot massage, it will go a long way in offering her relief and get you into her heroes’ book. And who knows what these massages will lead to?

2. Make her favourite meal.

Because pregnancy comes with weird stuff like her hating the smell of frying onions or boiling cassavas! As a supportive husband during pregnancy, you can get into the kitchen, put on the apron, and make the meals instead.

Ensure you make her favourite meal in the best way she likes it. Because she could hate you for messing up her appetite. But do not blame her, it’s the pregnancy whirlwind!

3. Tell her she is beautiful, always

Pregnancy has a way of changing a woman’s body in a drastic way. A bulging tummy, stretch marks and even a rough face may leave her feeling insecure. Always assure her that she is the most attractive person you have ever met and declare your love for her. Take her to the salon too for a makeover and she will want to be pregnant for you again and again!

4. Accompany her to the clinic

This will assure her that you care for both her and the baby and make her know that you understand how to be a supportive husband during pregnancy. It will also help you get to know what’s happening with her and what to expect. Plus, it presents you as a very caring and sensitive man!

5. Take her out

Pregnancy does not mean that both of you should abandon your social life and sit home nursing mood swings. No! Get time to go out for a meal, a movie or even a walk in the park.

This will not only help you connect, but will also divert her mind from some of the worries that come with pregnancy.

6. Get enough pillows for husband and pregnant wife

You may have observed that the pillows in your bed keep increasing as your wife’s bump grows. Your once spacious bed starts to shrink to the extent that you may fall off the edge! While you may take it personally, it is vital to understand that your partner might be suffering from pains and aches even in areas she did not expect.

The right pillows for husband and pregnant wife will allow both of you to sleep comfortably. Surprise her during this period with a maternity pillow and you will become her saviour.

7. Run her a warm bath as a normal husband role during pregnancy

It is essential that your wife gets enough time to relax each day and concentrate on her pregnancy. Part of the husband role during pregnancy is lighting some candles and running a sweet-smelling bath to make her enjoy her me-time after a long day.

While she soaks in the tub, take time to relax since you also need to feel cared for. Most importantly, keep reminding her of how much you adore her and do not forget to do spontaneous acts of kindness, as this is a great way to show that you support your pregnant wife during her time of need.

8. Be understanding of your pregnant wife

Since pregnancy sometimes sucks, what a pregnant woman needs from her husband is for him to understand her. Your wife may at times feel too tired to accompany you to the party, too nauseous that she cannot eat the delicious meal you have prepared for her, or needs a bath so much that she cries on your drive back home. This is where your hero mentality as a husband should kick in.

For proper husband’s support during pregnancy, do something to help her know that you are understanding such as giving her a break or adjusting yourself to her needs. Listen to her numerous concerns, offer a shoulder for her to cry on, and give her assurance that everything shall be well.

9. Avoid being an insensitive husband during pregnancy

To avoid being an insensitive husband during pregnancy, take time to talk and share your experiences and feelings after listening to hers. You could be worried about many things and trying to handle conflicting pregnancy emotions and fatherhood. It is important to be honest about your feelings so that your wife cannot have the notion of having a case of "husband not supportive during pregnancy" issues.

10. Be her birth partner

Share with your wife what you know concerning birth and get to know her wishes. Assure her that you will stand by her side in the delivery room. To be a good husband during pregnancy, you can also contribute towards her birth choices by doing thorough research that will be useful on the delivery day.

11. Be available to take care of her during and after this period.

Having looked at the tips for husbands during pregnancy, it is equally crucial to know what to do immediately after a successful delivery. While helping with the baby, you may have to change the diapers as many times as possible. Additionally, seek help for her if she is struggling when breastfeeding.

Helping your partner to have a smooth pregnancy is one way of fulfilling your role as a loyal father-to-be and husband. While it can be confusing in the beginning, learning how to be a supportive husband during pregnancy with above tips can ensure that you overcome all your fears. Keep asking your wife the “how can I help you” as this will make her know you are concerned.

11 lovely, caring ways for your spouse during and after pregnancy.

Two serving corps members identified as Mohammed Alhaji-Musa and Hauwa Yahaya-Bagudu who began a romantic relationship after meeting in NYSC's 2019 Batch 'A' Orientation Course have tied the nuptial knots. 

The couple got married on Friday February 7, at the Nigeria Air Force Base Central Mosque in Kano. A major highlight of the event was the couple exchanging their marital vows in NYSC uniform. 

Kano State's NYSC coordinator, Malam Baba Ladan led other NYSC Staff and Corps Members to the wedding reception. 

He commended the new couple for maintaing their relationship which blossomed into marriage and fulfilling one of the objectives of the NYSC Scheme which is to achieve national unity and integration.
The bride is from Niger State while the groom is an indigene of Nasarawa State.
He said;
“We met in camp during our platoon activities, especially the day we met during our platoon duty in the kitchen.

“Since then love took hold of me like breeze from nowhere. I was overwhelmed by her kindness and the kind of hospitality I received the first day I went to their house”.
On her own part, Hauwa said she never wanted to serve in Kano. She added that her deployment to the state has now turned out to be a huge blessing to her.
The graduate of I.B.B University in Lapai, Niger State said;
“Today I thank God because my being here has turned out to be a blessing”.
Kano state NYSC coordinator, Mal. Baba Ladan who confirmed the couple’s marriage said he now looks at them as role models for others.

Ladan said;
“l look at them as role models to other corps members that will start a relationship that will also end into a marriage”.

The serving corps members’ wedding fatiha will hold on Friday, February 7, at the Nigeria Air Force Base Central Mosque in Kano by 1:30 pm.

BEAUTIFUL : Serving Corps Members Get Married In Uniform (PHOTOS)

The senator representing Plateau South senatorial district, Ignatius Longjan, is dead.

Longjan was a senator under the platform of the All Progressive Congress (APC), who defeated the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) candidate in the keenly contested 2019 election.

His death was confirmed by a government house source who said it was a great loss to the entire state. Longjan was said to have died on Monday morning after a brief illness.

Longjan was former deputy governor to David Jonah Jang between 2011 and 2015.

Late Longjan was also a governorship aspirant under the PDP platform in 2015.

Shocking:Plateau South Senator, Longjan is dead

Unconfirmed reports reveal that a pregnant woman who alighted from a car has run mad in Imo state.

The pregnant young woman presumably in her twenties was dropped off around 9am by boys suspected to be yahoo boys.

Sympathisers tried helping her immediately they noticed she was behaving abnormally.

She was also not seen with her underwear. An eyewitness said;

“She was dropped by some strange boys in a vehicle, she started behaving strangely and we suspected she might have been dropped by one of these ritualists because she was not having her undies on as she tried to free herself from the sympathisers who held her.”

She was later taken to a nearby church for spiritual assistance

Pregnant woman run mad after dropping by her boy friend.

The boy named,  Olawepo Siju. a class five years old boy,  he is attending Carol School in Lagos,  he has been hailed as calender prodigy who knows the days for date supplied to him,  as far back as the 16 century.

According to the reporter,  this nine-years old boy genius provides corresponding day to any date he is given almost faster than internet search engine.

  This innate ability was first observed by one of his class teachers who noticed that he was always requesting for a plank paper to design calender. later he was seen designing calender for the future without the aids of assistance or existing dates.

This boy Olawepo,  like a soothsayer,  once given a date,  he can tell u the corresponding day of the week. in addition to knowing the dates,  he also doesn't forget any date he knows.
He can tell anybody the particular day of the week he/she was born.
Within seconds, he told the Daily Trust reporter her birthday while he also said Nigeria will be 100 years on Friday, October 1, 2060. He was also quick to say it would be a leap year.

When asked how he came about knowing days with their corresponding dates, the response was, “I just know it. My instinct tells me dates with the corresponding days. It comes naturally to me, I cannot explain how.” Daily Trust gathered from Siju’s computer teacher, Mr David Ugiomoh, that what the boy enjoys doing most is designing calendars.

“He was always coming to my office to ask for plain sheets for designing calendars. I and others in the school initially thought he was copying from an existing calendar until the day he came to my office to design a calendar for the year 2023. When I checked the dates on my phone, I saw that they were all correct,”

“Then I started asking him days for different dates and he was answering correctly. I also asked him for the day to my birthday, which he provided seamlessly.
I was baffled and discovered he was a genius,” he explained. Siju said his future ambition is to become a horticulturist and will plant varieties of flowers.

A Little boy of 9 years old with Calender Dates in his brain.

Two Chinese nationals have been arrested by the police for allegedly sexually assaulting their roommate, another Chinese, through the anus.

The suspects: Yang Liang Ming, 41, and Wang Gui-Moi, 45, both staff of Life Mate Furniture, were arrested following a petition to Area F Police Command by one of their roommates, Jun Lan-Yin, who alleged that they forcefully have sex with him through the anus while sleeping.

Police detectives, led by an Assistant Commissioner of Police, Olasoji Akinbayo, arrested the two suspects and detained them for interrogation.
Olasoji’s team’s investigation confirmed the allegation to be true.

A medical report from the Mirabel Medical Centre at the Lagos State Teaching Hospital also confirmed the allegation by Lan-Yin.
The police report also said both Gui-Moi and Ming have overstayed their visas in Nigeria.

The report also said the duo have a record of being gay at their former place of work and the company was ready to testify against them if necessary.

Police arrested Two Chinese alleged anal rape in Nigeria (see photos)